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Wednesday, July 08, 2009

Women's Magazine 1858 vs. Today

We know that our society has changed a lot over the past few generations. Some of the "experts" can't figure out why young women (and adults) are acting the way they do.  Maybe here's a clue:

Modern Secular Women's Magazine:   At least one prominent article about sexual technique, lots of diet tips, photos showing women with "perfect" airbrushed bodies, photos of "perfect" model houses and gossip about celebrities' love lives.

1858 Arthur's Home Magazine (like a Godey's Lady's Book): Stories in these magazines usually feature a heroine who 1) is well-educated but becomes poor and goes to work as a governess to support her widowed, ailing mother, her elderly father or a little sister 2) is wealthy but adopts a penniless orphan  3) is a poor but refined country-girl who meets and marries a wonderful preacher 4) is a selfish, worldly woman who marries a "fast" young man for money and ends up miserable. These stories (although they would seems a little saccarine to our jaded tastes today), are fully of kind, pious sisters, godly fathers and ministers, tender and loving mothers and devoted brothers. Scripture and scriptural references are everywhere and sufferers turn to prayer and are encouraged to both work and trust in a loving Heavenly Father.

Children's stories encourage traits like kindness, honesty, truthfulness, charity and gentleness.  Going to church and praying are taken for granted.

Drawings ususally show a sentimental family scene, a landscape, or a beautiful young woman in refined surroundings.

Are these stories perfect: no! There are lots of ethnic stereotypes, especially about Irish maids and cooks, strong class-consciousness and pride, and moderate worldly interest in fashions (dresses at that time are hooped and rather large; very conspicuous consumption) and home-decorations. Some of the writing is mediocre to say that least.

But how would our society be different if our  magazines and TV shows held up godly men and women, if marriage was the norm, if more families were shown praying and going to church?  I've been really pleased to see more and more "Christian" and "family" oriented movies come out lately. I hope this trend continues. "Christian" does not have to mean poor-quality films or sappy material.

Magazines and Stories Just Show How Far We've Fallen

Reading these old stories is just  like stepping into a different world: a completely different paradigm (if you'll excuse the term.)

I'm not suggesting that everyone in 1858 was "saved" or that there weren't murderers, hypocrites,  thieves and even gross perversion (there certainly was....there's nothing new under the sun...and there are books to prove it.) but these things weren't held up as the "norm".   Most people above the poorest classes weren't inundated with them as we are today.


Too Busy to Write

Between the normal summer swimming lessons, bible school, baby goats, birthday parties, etc, I've just been too busy to write lately.

QUAD BABY GOATS

Nina Freckles, our doe, gave us quads this year: 3 little girls and a boy. Two of the kids were tiny, about 2 lbs., and the other 2 were about 5 lbs. Quite a difference in size!  The first one out was a little black and white doeling named Jumeau, then the spirited little brown and white Bru, then Steiner (the boy) and his sister Bebe.  It was a real exercise delivering them; Jumeau was presented with only one leg out, then Bru was breech, Steiner's head was back and Bebe was normal. All are fine save that Jumeau has a weak front leg, possibly from an infection from her umbilical cord.

God has blessed us with some fine kids this year.

BIBLE SCHOOL

Jumeau and Bru, the two smallest kids, are being fed by bottle, so we were able to take them to a local Bible school, along with 2 lambs and one other kid, this week. The kids loved them

BELLA AND LUNA
We recently had to dispense with the services of my pet milk-doe, Annie, so we were in the market for a new doe. A lady in our homeschool group offered to trade two Alpine/Nubians for some sheep, so we have 2 young doelings: Bella and Luna. They're sweet little doelings, and we'll see how they do next year.

LADY BACK HOME
My Quarter Horse filly, Lady, has come back from training. It's amazing to see a silly little filly that you've watched grow up suddenly turn into a rideable horse!  Stephen was very impressed; Lady even let Sarah ride her (in a very, very small pen, of course. Green horse + Green rider = black and blue, you know. )  Ares the Clydesdale has now gone for his training.


HEAT AND RAIN

It's been quite hot here recently, near 100 many days with high humidity, of course. We've also had some violent thunderstorms with lots of lightening.


DUCKWEED
We've finally found a product that keep the duckweed on our pond under control. It's a chemical/biological combination approach from a pond supply store (Boatcycle) not 45 minutes from our house. Since we started late this year, and the pond was almost completely covered, we sprayed the chemical to knock back the weeds WHILE stocking the pond with tilapia. The tilapia reproduce like crazy in the pond and eat the duckweed; but they can't survive in the pond through the winter. I hope we find a way to harvest the tilapia. The pond is looking much better, and we enjoy watching the tilapia swim around the edges of the pond.

GARDEN
Well, the garden isn't doing so great this year. I'm holding out hope for the peas, beans and squash. My tomatoes this year are rotten on the bottom- supposedly a calcium deficiency or calcium up-take problem. I'm continuing to work with them.

PAINTING
We've been painting the laundry room and Stephen's bathroom. The yellow-orange paneling in the house was really starting to depress me.




Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Butter....by any other name

When I was about Sarah's age (almost 7), my grandmother used to occasionally let me churn butter, just to show me how it was done. Now I want to show Sarah, but the directions I'm finding are so different from what I remember.

From what I can gather, my grandmother's butter involved the old Southern way of making butter: from clabbered milk. I can remember her putting the milk into the churn and letting it sit in a warm place until it clabbered.  I don't remember her ever skimming the cream...but I could be wrong. Then you churned as usual, scooped out the bits of butter when they formed, worked and washed the butter and drank the leftover buttermilk.

Most of the directions I can find now simply involve beating cream.

I'm going to keep looking, because I want Sarah to see how her relatives made butter, not just a generic method used elsewhere.


Monday, June 01, 2009

Parents arrested for Children's Accidents

It's been a wild month around here.....more storms, garden work, shearing, etc.

Today I want to talk about something that troubles me deeply; God is really laying it on my heart. The sermon we heard yesterday was about Prodigal Children.  That came right before hearing about a grandma arrested because her 2 y.o. grandchild (of whom she was guardian) got into some medicine and OD'd. The child went into the bathroom at night, got the meds and took some. Apparently is wasn't a case of negligence, just a tragic accident. But Grandma was arrested.

I guess this hits home with me because, as the mother of a very curious, active child, we've had many times where Sarah could really have hurt herself. She can move a lot faster than I can and, honestly, can get into things a lot quicker than I can stop her. To keep her perfectly safe, I'd have to make her sit in a chair in the middle of the living room all day long.

Last night she got into a bottle of cough medicine and was playing with it. She didn't take any, thank God, but she had a syringe and was playing.

At almost 7, Sarah KNOWS better. We've talked, we've spanked, we've taken away TV, we've begged and pleaded. But she STILL does things that she knows are dangerous. Medicine cabinets? HA! She can easily climb up to any medicine cabinet, the top of the refrigerator or even a tall cabinet. We'd literally have to put a combination lock on a medicine cabinet to keep her out.....if she felt the need I'm sure she'd take the key to a padlock if she wanted something. This is the child who was using a screwdriver to take the knob off the door when she was 4.  She still eats cat food...although the last time I caught her I made her wash her mouth out with Listerine...that made a strong impression. She's gone out onto the main road, where hunters drive monster trucks at break-neck speed.

It boggles the mind. Parents are somehow supposed to protect kids from killing themselves WITHOUT really disciplining the kids.

I honestly don't know how this is supposed to be done.

 


Friday, May 08, 2009

My Experience with GE

I've been re-reading part of Jean Pierre de Caussade's  Abandonment to Divine Providence. I don't agree with all of his doctrine, but I've needed the reminder that God can and does use our everyday experiences to sanctify us.

I need that message right now. 

The washer's still broken. The part didn't come in as expected so: mountains of clothes and no washer (I can wash, only a little at a time.) We leave Sunday and I'm tied up most of tomorrow helping with a friend's son's birthday party, so I'll probably break down in a few minutes and try to find a safe-looking washeteria.

Our washer is a GE Profile.  We bought it about 2 years ago from a nice, local Mom-and-Pop furniture store that "services what it sells."  This is our second service call on the washer.  With this service call, we will probably have paid a good portion of what the washer originally cost.

Our old Whirlpool washer was 12 y.o. when it finally passed from this life.  It only needed service at the end of its long life.

I decided to call GE and tell them that we weren't really thrilled with the washer or the time it takes to get parts.  I buy a washer so that I can wash clothes at home.

I wasn't asking them to replace the washer.  I thought they'd like to know that I'm about ready to spread the word about my experience with GE appliances.  Most companies want to know.

Basically, the young lady at GE told me that

1) I should have called a GE authorized repair-person (I didn't know our dealer WASN'T also an authorized repairer; there is a difference)  She seemed to suggest that, as I am psychic (I suppose), I should have KNOWN that my authorized dealer wasn't also an authorized repairer.  I should also have known that there WERE authorized repairers in my area, although the website seems to suggest that these are only located near major cities.

2)Since I had committed this crime of using another repair service (I'm exaggerating a little here), there was nothing that GE could do for me because they didn't have a record of prior service on the washer. 

Of course, I asked to speak to her supervisor, who was a much more reasonable and friendly person. There's still nothing that GE can do really (well, they COULD, but they're not)...but at least she was friendly about it and sympathized with me.

This is what it's come down to:  GE really doesn't care about the fact that their products may or may not be good quality appliances, that they may end up prematurely in landfills or that they may generate poor relations with customers,  they just want you to use their authorized service reps.  If a customer doesn't use an authorized service person, then GE has an easy out.

Isn't this clever, boys and girls? I wish I'd thought of it.   

Using this ruse any company could make the shoddiest produce imaginable and then basically BLAME THE CUSTOMER and refuse to do anything if the item needed repair....if the customer didn't use their servicemen (who might conveniently be more expensive or further away than anyone else....)

The moral of this story is, if you own a GE appliance be SURE you use a GE authorized service rep. if you ever think you'll need GE to do anything to help you.

If you're thinking about buying a GE appliance, you might search online and see what others' experiences have been.

I won't tell you that everying they make is a junk; I'm sure it isn't and there are some fine folks working there.

For me, their customer service was the pits.

And people wonder why American industry is in trouble.

As for me, I guess I'll have to dust off my husband's Desert Eagle pistol and try to find a safe washeteria close by....then I may call my antique-dealer contacts and try to locate a washpot and wringer.  At least they're reliable.

 



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